Weekend with B

This was our first "reality" weekend. That kind of feeling where there's very little excitement about seeing each other, and lots on the mind dealing with work or RL. For B's part, he was very preoccupied with situations at work, and the fact that he'd need to work Sunday to get stuff done for a Linux guy on Monday. For my part, I was so totally exhausted, that all I really wanted to do was stay in bed.

But I didn't. I called B at 8am and told him I was up. We decided to do breakfast and he picked me up at 9:30. Breakfast for me turned out to be lunchfood. I was pretty hungry. Afterwards though, I got sooo sleepy. B told me he thought I needed a nap, and I ruefully agreed with him. So bowling was put on hold. We went back to his place. He asked how long I thought I'd nap. I said a couple hours. That was at 11:30.

I did wake up 2 hours later, but by then a soft rain was coming down. He was working on a 'puter in the other room, with the door closed, so I went back to sleep.

About 3:40 I finally woke up for good. Hungry of course. :P We went to the store and got some light fare and came back and ate, and watched some of the Tivo'd Tin Man from last week.

Dinner with Allie went ok. We ate at the Lobster bar, and B didn't talk too much. Not that I expected him to. Later I found out he'd been pretty disappointed by his order, and the service. At one point a waiter even came and took the glasses Allie and I weren't done with- like he was going to bring it back full. He never did though, so we had to ask for new ones. Our food was good though.

I slept better than I have there before. But I woke up early knowing I had to do greeter duty at church, and not really wanting to. I swear I almost fell asleep during the meditation.

I could have come home and gone to sleep, but have decided to treat myself to a Mani-Pedi. Maybe I can get extra massage for my sore muscles.

Anway... the weekend together felt more blah than it has before. B even felt it and apologized, said he felt guilty that we hadn't had an "exciting fun time". *Shrug* This was time when we just got to be ourselves, without scheduled activities and games. And hey, he let me sleep. What a guy.